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by Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life. In this episode: The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor) Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club — and the single-men policy that keeps the playroom comfortable The ladies' restroom that's basically a rite of passage, stocked with wipes, mouthwash, and photo-op lighting The infamous toilet paper story from their very first club visit — Pris's nightmare scenario, fully realized BYOB culture, Jell-O shot generosity, relaxed dress codes, and dancing naked from the front door The BDSM room, the spanking bench Adam insists is a "horse," and the porn room that delivered seven orgasms Why you should ALWAYS tip the hardworking playroom "chambermaids" Loaded fries, pizza, and a friendly warning about eating before you play If you've ever wondered what an open relationship night out looks like — or how to judge a swinger club before you commit — this ENM podcast quickie has you covered. Join us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday, 7–8 PM Central, at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. You can also catch us on FullSwapRadio at fullswapradio.com, Thursdays at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Come see us: Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount! krazykasbh.com Thanks to our sponsor: Pro DX Health — use code BEYOMONO for 15% off.
This one's serious, y'all — but it's a conversation the swinger lifestyle needs. Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on one of the darkest corners of ethical non-monogamy: sexual predators in the lifestyle. It's not the highlight reel, but after seeing too much of it lately, they're saying the quiet part out loud. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, the swinger podcast for lifestyle-curious couples and ENM veterans alike: What actually makes a predator — the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a genuine pattern of circumventing consent The red flags: pushing past a "no," repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no The saga of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out the whole club — and how a great club staff handled it The gut-punch of realizing people you called friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single Adam & Pris debate: do you blast a known predator to the community, or is that not your job? (Spoiler: Adam is not swinger Batman) Why CNC dynamics mean things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is genuinely wrong How to protect yourself: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and why verification (SDC, 3Fun, video-verified groups) matters in open relationships Hang out with us LIVE: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — plus every past episode, the blog, the merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Full livestream replays are a Patreon-only perk. Also streaming Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central on Full Swap Radio — fullswapradio.com. Come party with us: Crazy Casba's Crazy Winter Nights 2027 is happening in February and we're doing LIVE shows! Lock in your spot at crazycasba.com with code BEYOMONO for a discount. And next Saturday we're celebrating Adam's birthday at Club Eden in San Antonio — sign up on their site, come find our couches, and say hello. We love meeting listeners! Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — real talk on the swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and open relationships.
Slut. It used to be the worst thing you could call someone. On this Wednesday Quickie, swinger lifestyle veterans Adam & Pris grab the S-word by the collar and ask: what actually makes someone slutty — and why are we still letting a word from the 1400s do our thinking for us? In this candid ethical non-monogamy (ENM) conversation, the real-life couple behind Beyond Monogamy digs into slut-shaming, double standards, and why the swinger community doesn't just tolerate sluttiness — it celebrates it. In this episode: Pris gets called a slut in sixth grade — and again as a freshman, for not giving it up The actual Merriam-Webster definition of "slut" and its 1400s origin story Alcohol vs. weed: which one actually lowers your inhibitions? Adam's hotwife kink and consensual "cheating" fetish — and what happens when the fantasy talk ends Pris discovers her "hot husband" dominant side ("You can borrow him. He's coming back.") Is being touchy-feely slutty? Is teasing? The couple debates what counts as slutty behavior The double standard: what do you call a man who acts the same way? "Just a man, baby." Slut-shaming inside the lifestyle — yes, it happens, and it's ridiculous Watch us LIVE: Every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, the blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your lifestyle, ENM, or kink confessions and we might read them on air! Also streaming on FullSwapRadio: Catch us at fullswapradio.com Thursdays at 2PM and 7PM Central. Come see us: We'll be at Krazy Winter Nights in Kansas City, February 19–21, 2027! www.krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. Our sponsors: SDC — the largest online community for open-minded adults. Make a profile and explore: no weirdness, no judgment, just like-minded humans. Sign up at sdc.com with code 38236. Pro DX Health — we test, and they've got the hookup. Code BEYOMONO gets you 15% off. Keywords: swinger podcast, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hotwife, slut-shaming, swinger lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast
Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing with The Kink Consultant We're stepping outside our usual non-monogamy lane and into the wide, wild world of kink with special guest Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant. Amanda is a certified somatic sex & relationship coach and sexologist (and former NYC dominatrix!) who breaks down the real difference between a "kink" and a "fetish," why labels actually help you find yourself, and how power exchange, hot wifing, pre-claiming, and reclaiming sex all fit on the same spectrum. We also get into the light-bulb communication hack that took Adam's breath away, healthy boundaries around aftercare, and why justice might be Pris's real kink. In This Episode: Kink vs. fetish: what's actually the difference Amanda's journey from curious kid to NYC pro-domme to kink coach Foot fetishes, power exchange, and why "normal" kink is a spectrum The $20 light bulb trick for signaling dominant energy Hot wifing vs. hot husbanding, pre-claiming and reclaiming sex Compartmentalizing fantasy without cheating Aftercare, boundaries, and honest communication in ENM relationships Find Amanda Dames: Website: amandadames.com (grab her free guide, "Speaking Your Desires With Confidence") Podcast: The Kink Consultant Podcast Instagram: @the_kinkconsultant Facebook: The Kink Consultant TikTok: @the_kinkconsultant YouTube: @thekinkconsultant Email: info@thekinkconsultant.com Meet Amanda in Jamaica: swingcation.com - use code TKC50 Sponsors: ProDX Health - At-home STI & hormone testing, no waiting rooms, no awkward conversations. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com for 15% off year-round. SDC - Use code 38236 for the ultimate lifestyle community. 3Fun - Use code TK11932 for the app made for couples and singles exploring together. FirmTech - Use code BEYOMONO for performance gear built for the lifestyle. More From Beyond Monogamy: Website: beyond-monogamy.com - full episode library, listener confessionals, and our brand-new live show launching soon Streaming Radio: Catch us live every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central on Full Swap Radio Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio - join us in person! Krazy Winter Nights KC (Feb 19-21, 2027) - use code BEYOMONO at krazykasbh.com Enjoyed the show? Follow, rate, and leave us a review - it genuinely helps! Share this episode with a kink-curious friend.
In-the-Moment Jealousy in ENM: A Listener's Voicemail Confession Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — This week's Quickie tackles one of the most relatable topics in ethical non-monogamy: that flash of jealousy that hits in the moment, even when everything else feels solid. An anonymous listener sent in a voicemail describing a familiar scene: a good time at a pool party or meet-and-greet, a partner doing something he thought he was okay with... and then that sudden hand squeeze or whispered "please don't." Adam and Pris read the voicemail live and dig into it — no filter, no judgment. In this episode: Why in-the-moment jealousy is normal (even for people who don't consider themselves jealous) The "code" system Adam & Pris use to signal discomfort without killing the vibe How alcohol lowers inhibitions AND lowers your ability to process what you're feeling Why you shouldn't feel guilty for pulling back, even when your partner "attends to you well" The one time Adam & Pris broke up over a jealousy fight — and what fixed it 🎙️ Sponsors SDC (Swingers Date Club) — use code 38236 for a discount on your membership. 3Fun — the app for open-minded couples and singles, use code TK11932. FirmTech — use code BEYOMONO at checkout. ProDx Health — use code BEYOMONO for savings on your order. Snoozy Gummies — because after all that processing and hashing it out, you deserve some good sleep. Get 15% off with our link: snwbl.io/snoozy/ADAM89158 📅 Upcoming Events Catch us at Krazy Winter Nights KC, February 19–21, 2027 — grab tickets at krazykasbh.com and use code BEYOMONO for a discount. 📻 More Ways to Listen Catch us live on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central at fullswapradio.com. And coming soon: our own live show, Thursdays 7–8 PM Central right on our website! 🔗 Stay Connected Visit beyond-monogamy.com for the full episode library, our listener confessional line, upcoming events, and everything Beyond Monogamy. Got a question, confession, or "does anyone else do this" moment? Leave us a voicemail — you might end up on a future Quickie!
She's been with over a dozen people in the lifestyle — and has never once had an orgasm with any of them. Meanwhile, her husband comes every time. More than once. At the club. This week, Adam & Pris dive headfirst into one of the most common — and least talked-about — issues in the lifestyle: the orgasm gap. Is it a vetting problem? A communication problem? A men-are-oblivious problem? (Spoiler: yes, yes, and yes.) In This Episode: Why the orgasm gap is real — and gets worse in the lifestyle Why she comes easily at home but not at the club How to vet for pleasure-focused partners The power of over-communication before you ever get to the back room Toys, body language, cheat codes, and how to advocate for your own pleasure Is everyone just out for themselves? Adam & Pris give the honest answer Find everything Beyond Monogamy at beyond-monogamy.com — including our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story and it might become our next episode. Catch us on fullswapradio.com every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM Central. 📅 Krazy Winter Nights – Kansas City | Feb 19–21, 2027 | krazykasbh.com | Code: BEYOMONO Our Sponsors: SDC – The world's largest lifestyle community. Code: 38236 3Fun – The #1 app for couples and singles in the lifestyle. Code: TK11932 FirmTech – Performance rings designed for men who want to bring their best. Code: BEYOMONO ProDx Health – At-home STI testing, discreet and fast. Code: BEYOMONO
Episode Summary: Things got real this week on Beyond Monogamy. Adam and Pris pull back the curtain on what it actually looks like when financial stress collides with the swinging lifestyle — missed events, killed libidos, emotional eating, and the very adult decision to stay home and pay the bills instead of living that highlight reel. They open up about skipping Naughty N'awlins 2026 and the Port Aransas beach takeover, navigating life on one income, the struggle to grow an OnlyFans when you actually have a full-time job, and how stress messes with your sex drive more than anything else ever could. Plus: Pris's big three-career plan, her Series 65 journey, and the mystery of why Buddies THC drinks are the unlikely hero of their recent club nights. Raw, honest, funny, and deeply relatable — this one's for every lifestyle couple who's ever had to choose between the club and the electric bill. In This Episode: Why Adam and Pris had to cancel Naughty N'awlins and the beach takeover Living the lifestyle on one income — what's actually possible The OnlyFans reality check nobody talks about How financial stress tanks your libido (and what to do about it) Pris's plan: financial advisor + lifestyle event planner + secret project for women Why Buddies THC seltzers are now a club night staple The St. Andrew's Cross history lesson nobody asked for (but got anyway) Find Everything Beyond Monogamy: 🌐 www.beyond-monogamy.com — episodes, merch, blog, anonymous confessional & more 📻 Also streaming on Full Swap Radio — Thursdays at 2PM & 7PM Central Upcoming Events: 🎉 Beyond Monogamy Live @ Club Eden San Antonio — details at beyond-monogamy.com ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights KC — February 19–21, 2027 | krazykasbh.com | Use code BEYOMONO Our Sponsors: 🔑 SDC — The world's largest lifestyle community. Join at SDC.com | Code: 38236 🔥 3Fun — The #1 app for couples & singles in the lifestyle. Use code TK11932 💪 FirmTech — Performance rings & biometric data for better sex. Use code BEYOMONO 🩺 ProDx Health — At-home STI testing, discreet & fast. Use code BEYOMONO
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with Stirling Cooper — former adult film star, ex-male escort, and now one of the world's most sought-after intimacy and sexual performance coaches for men. This one gets real, fast. Stirling breaks down how he cracked the swinger scene as a single male in Australia, built a high-class escorting career, won awards in adult film, and then walked away from it all to help everyday men take control of their sex lives. We also find out what celery has to do with your semen volume (yes, really). In This Episode: How Stirling broke into the lifestyle as a single male From research scientist to male escort — his unexpected path What the adult film industry is really like behind the scenes Why he retired from porn in 2020 Premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction & the male refractory period Adam's very unique brain chemistry (no prolactin, who?) The supplement stack that can make you multi-orgasmic The celery trick that will change your semen game forever Find Stirling Cooper: Men: stirlingcooper.com Women: stirlingforher.com — free Pleasure Blueprint guide Our Sponsors: SDC.com — The world's largest swinger & lifestyle community. Sign up with code 38236 for a discount. 3Fun — The #1 app for threesomes & couples. Use code TK11932. FirmTech — The performance ring built for the bedroom. Use code BEYOMONO at firmtech.com. ProDx Health — At-home sexual health testing. Use code BEYOMONO at prodxhealth.com. Find Us: Website: beyond-monogamy.com Stream us: fullswapradio.com Events: Beyond Monogamy Live at Club Eden San Antonio | Krazy Winter Nights KC — Feb 19–21, 2027 at krazykasbh.com (code: BEYOMONO)
Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy.From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com
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