Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

They Didn't Miss You, They Ran Out of Money: How Hoovering Actually Works

October 1, 2026·21 min
Episode Description from the Publisher

Future faking hoovering isn't a change of heart. It's a second round of grooming, aimed at exactly what the first round wanted. In this highlight from Kerry's weekly live Q&A, she takes on what's actually happening when someone shows up with flowers, apologies and a raked pile of leaves after months of silence — and why the answer has almost nothing to do with you. In this episode: • Why not being hoovered is a read on what you had left to give • Hoovering is a role vacancy, not a longi...

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