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by Sharleen Joynt & Andy Levine
Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests.
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- Today1h 13m
Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you loathe your brother's girlfriend's "Influencer" Instagram, are you just being judgy or should you warn him of red flags? If your friend's financial situation has gotten difficult, is it wise to loan her money? If you found your husband's top secret stash, starring a surprising main character, what should you do? And if your boyfriend is loyal and loving but you have a secret fantasy, is it worth it to risk it all for the Unknown? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.A special thank you to our sponsors...- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/shandy!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping6:20 - Q1: My Brother Is Dating A Superficial Influencer Wannabe—Help!24:25 - Q2: My Friend Is Having A Difficult Time Financially—Should I Lend Her The Funds?36:46 - Q3: I Found My Husband’s Secret Stash Of Deepfakes He Created Of Me—Help!52:20 - Q4: I Have A Loyal Boyfriend But A Secret Fantasy—Do I Take The Leap?If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Yesterday41 min
Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Today Shandy is delighted to welcome the (co-)WINNER of Netflix's Perfect Match Season 4, the one and only Dave Hand! We watched Dave leave the show hand-in-hand with Sophie... so what *really* happened? Today Dave explains the truth behind the breakup, who from the cast is the most misunderstood, and how his life has changed in the aftermath of TWO reality shows. Most importantly, Shandy learns the thought process that goes into getting a neck tattoo! We enjoyed this conversation and think you will, too! #netflix #perfectmatchThanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!More Dave:- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dth_9- TikTok: http://tiktok.com/@davethomas9Time Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Dave Hand!3:20 - What Happened With Sophie9:08 - Who From Perfect Match Is Most Misunderstood?15:36 - Did He Feel A Cultural Difference On The Show?21:09 - Life After TV24:46 - What Is The Thought Process That Goes Into Getting A Neck Tattoo?29:37 - Ranking Cast Members30:04 - Is His Favorite Movie Really ‘The Notebook’?31:16 - Rapid Fire38:00 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 1 weeks ago54 min
Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, and today they're breaking down the grand FINALE!Thanks to our sponsors...- Go to https://poshmark.com/shandy to get $10 off your first purchase!- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, Free Shipping and a Free Rechargeable Frother!- Go to https://curehydration.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://rula.com/SHANDY and take the first step towards improved mental health!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:45 - Finale Kick Off25:00 - “Perfect Match” Crowning Ceremony44:19 - Surprise Couple47:15 - Final Thoughts & Predictions49:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 2 weeks ago1h 8m
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your longtime platonic friend have been secretly crushing on each other, is it now or never to make a move, even if he's started dating someone new? (Speak now or forever hold your peace?) If your friend has volunteered YOU to help her move, can you worm your way out of it, or is it best to roll up your sleeves and help? And what can be done if your partner of 16 years has become a moody grump? Can people actually change, or must you grin and bear it? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our lovely sponsors...- Go to https://quince.com/shsandy for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns!- Go to https://dupe.com and tell it what you’re looking to buy!- Go to https://www.squarespace.com and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping2:14 - Q1: My Longtime Friend And I Are Secretly Crushing But Timing Isn’t Our Friend—Help!16:54 - Q2: My “Friend” Has Assumed I’ll Help Her Move Homes—Can I Get Out Of This?26:03 - Q3: My Boyfriend & I Are Finally Moving In Together But I Fear Compromising On This One Thing—Help!34:12 - Q4: I’m An Adult But These Former Colleagues Make Me Feel Like I’m In Junior High—Help!44:58 - Q5: My Husband Is Moody And It’s Driving Me Nuts!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 2 weeks ago1h 16m
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 6-7! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Text SHANDY to 64000 for your 2 free gifts with the purchase of any Pocket Hose Ballistic hose!- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://ogee.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 20% off!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping3:06 - Episode 633:53 - Episode 71:12:15 - Shandy's Predictions1:14:44 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 3 weeks ago1h 22m
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464
Shandy is back with their world-famous recaps! Shandy couldn't resist the siren song of Perfect Match Season 4, so today they're breaking down the first batch, aka episodes 1-5! Thanks to our wonderful sponsors...- Go to https://saltandstone.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!- Go to https://functionhealth.com/SHANDY and use gift code SHANDY25 for a $25 credit towards your membership!- Go to https://perelelhealth.com and use code SHANDY to get 20% off your first order!- Buy 1 pair of prescription glasses and get 20% off any additional prescription pairs at https://warbyparker.com/SHANDY- Go to https://ollie.com/shandy and use code SHANDY to get 70% off your Welcome Kit today!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:16 - Episode 126:10 - Episode 235:32 - Episode 356:14 - Episode 41:07:53 - Episode 51:19:11 - Who We Would Go ForIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillionSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- 4 weeks ago52 min
U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Today Shandy is joined by fellow podcasters and dating advice givers, Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham from the U Up? Podcast! They chat the most common themes they see in the questions they receive, whether or not dating today is *actually* worse (or if we're just talking about it more), and what it's like to date when you're famous! Watch on for two relationship podcasts' (sometimes very different!) perspectives on apps and modern romance.Thanks to our sponsors:- Go to https://www.squarespace.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 10% off your first website or domain!- Go to https://laundrysauce.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://shopremi.com/SHANDY and use CODE SHANDY to get 50% off your night guard!- Go to https://www.oneskin.co and use code SHANDY to get 15% off!- Go to https://revolve.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY for 15% off your first order!More Jordana & Jared:- The U Up? Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/u.up.podcast- Jordana: https://www.instagram.com/jordanaabraham- Jared: https://www.instagram.com/jaredfreidTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Jordana Abraham & Jared Freid of U Up? Podcast!0:47 - What Are The Most Common Themes They See In Their Relationship Qs?9:34 - Is Dating Today Actually Worse Or Are We Just Talking About It More?11:51 - Number One Piece Of Dating Advice21:43 - Dating When You’re Famous25:22 - Leaving The House31:57 - Advice They Give That They Struggle To Follow39:06 - Would You RatherIf you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
- Apr 30, 20261h 8m
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462
It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your best friend puts zero thought into setting you up with her husband's friend, is that a slight or are you just sensitive? If your boyfriend's new hobby involves regularly "borrowing" your ideas, is it weird to be annoyed or is just a case of "sharing is caring"? At what age is OK to stop sending your nieces and nephews money? And if a family member is addicted to making AI-generated photos of your family, is it worth the awkwardness of saying something? Come join us in our living room for good conversation and the Shandy take!Interested in getting the Shandy take but don't want to appear on the podcast? Email dearshandy@gmail.com for information about Shandy Off The Record sessions.Thanks to our sponsors!- Go to https://cozyearth.com and use code SHANDY for 20% off!- Go to https://mudwtr.com and use code SHANDY to get up to 43% off your entire order, free shipping and a free rechargeable frother!- Go to https://Ollie.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY to get 60% off your Welcome Kit today!- Shop Sharleen’s favorite Bras and Underwear at https://www.skims.com/SHANDY- Go to https://goodwipes.com/SHANDY to snag a free pack of goodwipes at Walmart!Time Stamps:0:00 - Housekeeping1:54 - Q1: At What Age Can I Stop Sending My Nephews Money?17:08 - Q2: My Friend Put No Thought Into Setting Me Up—Am I Being Too Sensitive?33:00 - Q3: My Boyfriend Loves Doing Standup But Keeps Stealing My Jokes—Help!50:30 - Q4: My Mother-In-Law Is Addicted To Making AI-Generated Photos Of Our Family—Help!If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.comSubscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyFollow us!Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandySharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntAndy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance. Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes who have now been married for over a decade. They don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the tough dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, non-judgmental & honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge (combined with Andy's hilarious commentary) to deliver what are hands-down the best Reality TV recaps in the business. They interview reality TV (or reality-adjacent) couples in double-date style episodes called Love Fests.
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