Episode 386: Nervous System Regulation, Somatics, and Stress Resilience with Tracy Holemeyer

In this episode of the Flex Diet Podcast, I sit down with my friend Tracy Holemeyer (Uncontrollably Me, host of the Other Way to See It podcast) to talk about healing and performance through nervous system flexibility, somatics, and self-awareness, especially with how much stress people are carrying right now.  We dig into practical tools like orienting, grounding, the “starfish” drill, pendulation, and Tracy’s “core four” (soft eyes, relaxing the tongue, breath pacing for coherence, and soft knees), plus how posture and unconscious habits can shape mood and behavior. We also explore the value of community and coaching, how movement and sound (including humming, voo breath, and growling) can help regulate, and we finish with a thoughtful discussion on psychedelics, integration, and why support and discernment matter. Sponsors: Daily Fitness Insider Newsletter: https://flex-diet.kit.com/bfa1510fa8 Available now: Grab a copy of the Triphasic Training II book I co-wrote with Cal Deitz here. Episode Chapters: 02:59 Meet Tracy and Catch Up 04:46 Micro Breaks and Orienting 08:46 Starfish and Body Awareness 10:44 Joints Posture and Anxiety 17:37 Strategies Become Identity 21:00 Awareness Coaching in Practice 26:02 Coaching Community and Support 32:44 Social Media Validation Trap 36:13 Integrity and Business Alignment 39:39 Trauma Weight and Safety 41:57 Referrals Over Scarcity 43:07 Abundance Through Uncertainty 47:09 Money Purpose and Access 52:57 Capacity and Ongoing Stress 57:15 Pendulation and Core Four 01:03:00 Movement Urgency and Sound 01:08:55 Growling Music and Release 01:15:23 Healing as Defiance 01:16:59 Flow States and Community 01:18:23 Recreation With Real Stakes 01:20:13 Choosing Controlled Hardship 01:21:09 Healthy Stress Builds Capacity 01:23:34 Rewriting Trauma Responses 01:25:28 Psychedelics And Integration 01:34:07 Avoiding The Healing Shortcut 01:37:10 Where Memories Live 01:42:45 Four Tools For Stress 01:46:19 Finding Tracy And Closing 01:49:45 Podcast Wrap And Disclaimer Flex Diet Podcasts you may enjoy: Episode 354: How Shiftwave Reboots Your Nervous System w/ Dr. Jeff Rouse YouTube: https://youtu.be/XTPwIb3ZMxQ Episode 345: Sleep Like a Beast: Lessons from Jay Wiles and Jeffrey Durmer YouTube: https://youtu.be/8mVvceWn-Yw Connect with Tracy: Website: https://www.uncontrollablyme.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedsomatics Get In Touch with Dr Mike: Instagram: Drmiketnelson YouTube: @flexdietcert Email: Miketnelson.com/contact-us