182: The Things We Do When We Feel Safe: Group BDSM Scenes, Opening Up, and the Lincoln Tunnel Story

This week, Elle and Vee sit down with Mr. A for an unfiltered look at how his and Vee’s relationship evolved from being monogamish into group BDSM scenes, couple swapping, and separate experiences. They break down his detailed scene-negotiation process, including desires, limits, safe words, triggers, aftercare, and how every person, even the voyeur or cuck, stays included. Vee opens up about jealousy, emotional activation, reconnection rituals, and why feeling safe matters more than pretendi...