I wish you knew...what it's like to be a caregiver

Caregiving can quietly reshape a family, shifting roles, responsibilities, and relationships in ways that are often hard to name. It can bring people closer, but it can also surface distance, guilt, and questions about what it really means to show up for someone you love.In this episode of Mind If We Talk?, host and licensed mental health counselor Sreela Roy-Greene sits down with Chris Punsalan and his cousin Merz Esguerra. They reflect on their very different experiences caring for their grandmother: Chris was her full-time caregiver for eight years, while Merz describes taking more of a backseat during that time.Their conversation opens up a deeper look at family roles, emotional labor, and the complicated mix of love, obligation, and regret that can come with caring for an aging loved one.00:00 The Emotional Reality of Caregiving02:54 Meet Chris and Merz: A Family Caregiving Story05:40 What Daily Life as a Caregiver Looks Like10:35 Why Caregivers Often Don’t Ask for Help14:22 Regret, Guilt, and Family Dynamics16:56 The Emotional Cost of Caregiving20:52 Finding Purpose Through Caregiving24:38 Advice for Caregivers27:10 What Caregiving Teaches About Love29:11 Expert Perspective on Caregiver Burnout30:17 How to Ask for Help as a Caregiver34:11 Family Communication and Support42:56 Feeling Overwhelmed and Coping Strategies53:26 Closing Reflections Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.