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by Coral Osborne
Next Man Up explores the contradictions of modern masculinity, where success and self-optimization still leave many men unfulfilled. Through candid conversations, the podcast examines the tension between freedom and connection, power and purpose, fear and fulfillment. It bridges the growing gap between men and women, fostering empathy and deeper relationships. Featuring diverse guests—including authors, comedians, and even host Coral’s personal connections—the show creates a judgment-free space for men to explore vulnerability, identity, and the evolving male experience.
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- 6 days ago1h 6m
16 - King Noire: Fetish, Fantasy & Non-Monogamy
On The Next Man Up, Coral interviews adult performer, activist, artist, and master fetish trainer King Noire, co-founder of Royal Fetish Films with Jet Setting Jasmine. King recounts being kicked out at 17, homelessness, and entering adult work through paid shoots and underground New York BDSM/swinger scenes, learning kink hands-on and emphasizing consent and safety. He discusses fetish exploration, shame, fantasy vs. reality, and how trauma shifted his boundaries after being beaten by police while restrained. King explains Royal Fetish’s mission to create better-produced work and avoid fetishization, rejects race play, and names off-limits content like age play involving minors and incest/step themes. He describes his non-monogamous relationship with Jasmine, co-parenting with age-appropriate sex-positive communication, and current projects including his album “Holistic Medicine,” new scenes, and a 10-year fetish-quiz data study unveiling desires among Black and brown participants.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Why Sex Work Matters📌 Madonna Whore Healing📌 Raising Sex Positive Kids📌 Non Monogamy Done Right📌 What Counts as a FetishEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH KING NOIRE 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealkingnoireSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/5BBL5TC5T4JpEa46ccWZGp?si=3M6_J5caTQaIxtu95JRiPwApple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/album/sellinit-celibate/6776832505?i=6776832506YouTube: https://youtu.be/TgCGsRpFzPk?is=imMco40Wa9uDH_-sWebsite: https://www.kingnoire.com/CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- 2 weeks ago1h 24m
15 - Rory Christopher: Male Magnetism, Passion & Attunement
Coral Osborne hosts Rory Christopher on The Next Man Up to unpack modern masculinity, attraction, and “male magnetism,” which Rory frames as two traits: power (groundedness, steadiness, direction) and passion (emotional aliveness, expression, attunement). They discuss why attraction collapses when men become dependent on a woman’s responsiveness, lack intimacy skills, or treat women transactionally, and why “simping” often reflects covert contracts. Through stories (missed bids for connection, sexual rushing, situational confidence), they emphasize micro-moments, curiosity, and authenticity over performance. Coral shares her background in sex work and how nonjudgmental presence revealed men’s hidden selves; Rory shares his shift from insecurity to relaxed confidence. They cover dating apps as a “video game,” fail-fast voice notes/FaceTime, women’s testing for steadiness, sexual communication frameworks, and Rory’s upcoming free blind-spot quiz at malemagnetism.com.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Attunement In Practice📌 The Key To Male Magnetism 📌 Eight Intimacies Framework📌 What Men and Women Truly Desire📌 Pam And Tommy LessonsEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH RORY 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rorygoodlifeMagnetic Man: https://docs.google.com/document/d/17jrVD7tqLDqHpdxkWbgrfTtQtoSTimHMjy_oFn7l0GU/edit?tab=t.otqcf4kqoaq4#heading=h.r9k0qw7m55iwCONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- Jun 25, 20261h 14m
14 - Aaron Michael: Unmasking Intimacy & The Cervix–Heart Connection
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne interviews Aaron Michael, a sexologist and intimacy coach, about modern masculinity, sexual shame, and how disconnection can block pleasure. Aaron shares his evangelical missionary upbringing, early curiosity about sexuality, and career shift from helping people overcome dating anxiety to teaching “embodied love” and practical protocols for deeper intimacy. They discuss how people can lack concordance between psychological arousal, emotions, and physical response, and how taboo and power dynamics can trigger shame and shutdown. Coral describes her difficulty orgasming with a male partner, rooted in control and sex-work conditioning, and recounts a bodywork session with Aaron focused on embodied consent, active receiving, breathing, and regulation. Aaron explains mental arousal triggers, the erotic landscape, and a cervix–heart connection that led to Coral’s emotional release and “heartgasm.”EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Agency Versus Bypass📌 Prince To King Tease📌 Erotic Landscape Map📌 Heartgasm Explained📌 Truth Responsibility CycleEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH AARON 📩InstagramAwakened Woman 2.0CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- Jun 11, 20261h 6m
13: David Ley: Cuckholding, Pornography & Sexual Communication
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist David Ley for a candid and thought-provoking conversation about sexuality, pornography, relationships, desire, shame, and the misconceptions that continue to shape modern sexual culture. Drawing from decades of clinical work and research, David challenges popular narratives around porn addiction, sexual shame, monogamy, infidelity, kink, and sexual diversity while offering a nuanced perspective on what actually drives healthy sexual behavior.Together, they explore the psychology behind cuckolding, hotwifing, and stag-vixen dynamics, the role of attachment and trust in unconventional relationships, why shame often fuels sexual struggles more than sexuality itself, and how society's failure to teach sexual communication leaves many people navigating intimacy without the tools they need. The conversation also dives into porn literacy, male emotional health, modern dating, rejection, consent, sexual negotiation, and the importance of approaching sexuality with curiosity rather than judgment. What unfolds is a fascinating examination of the ways sex, identity, relationships, and personal growth are deeply intertwined.EPISODE THEMES 📝📌 Porn Addiction Myths & Sexual Shame📌 Cuckolding, Hotwifing & Stag-Vixen Dynamics📌 Attachment, Jealousy & Relationship Security📌 Sexual Values, Personal Growth & Self-Acceptance📌 Why Sexual Literacy Matters More Than EverEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH DAVID 📩Website: https://www.davidleyphd.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davidleyphd/CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- May 28, 20261h 13m
12 - Will Blunderfield: Sexual Kung Fu, Semen Retention, and Bro Bonding
In this episode of The Next Man Up, Coral interviews yoga teacher Will Blunderfield about modern masculinity, sexual shame, and practices he teaches such as sexual kung fu, semen retention, sexual transmutation, and “solo cultivation” as an alternative to NoFap-style abstinence. Will links frequent ejaculation and porn habits to low energy and describes techniques for staying below orgasm, moving arousal through the body, sounding, and “dearmoring” the penis and testicles to build a shame-free self-sensory system. They discuss gay panic, male bonding, hazing as a distorted initiation ritual, historical examples of same-sex bonding, and how Abrahamic religious influence suppressed genital-based spirituality. Coral shares her background in sex work, celibacy, embodiment work, and vulnerability, while Will demonstrates Daoist “six healing sounds,” outlines in-person men’s rituals, and lists where to find his work online.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Semen Retention📌 Fear Trauma And Male Loneliness📌 How Religion Shamed The Body📌 Six Healing Sounds Practice📌 Bro Bonding HistoryEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH WILL 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notwillblunderfieldCONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- May 15, 20261h 36m
11 - Connor Beaton: Men’s Work, Rejection, and Real Intimacy
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, for a raw and wide-ranging conversation about men’s work, shame, vulnerability, relationships, sex, purpose, and the hidden emotional lives many men are carrying. Connor shares how hitting rock bottom, lying, infidelity, addiction-adjacent patterns, and a life of moral incongruence led him into deep therapeutic and Jungian work that eventually became the foundation for helping men build more honest, grounded lives.Together, they explore why confession is often the first step toward real change, why men may resist vulnerability, how shame shapes desire and intimacy, the Madonna/Whore complex, the mother wound, attachment trauma, initiation, male loneliness, rejection, commitment, and what women often misunderstand about men. What unfolds is part men’s work masterclass, part relationship autopsy, and part honest reckoning with the stories men inherit, the truths they hide, and the work required to become more whole.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 The Madonna/Whore Complex📌 The Mother Wound & Attachment Trauma📌 Rejection, Commitment & Modern Dating📌 Male Loneliness & Feeling Replaceable📌 Purpose, Performance & What Men Are Really SeekingEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH CONNOR 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalksYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@ManTalksCONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- Apr 30, 20261h 35m
10 - Neil Osborne: Coral’s Dad on Fatherhood, Psychedelics, & Family Truths
In this episode of The Next Man Up, host Coral Osborne sits down with her father, Neil Osborne, for a raw, funny, and unexpectedly tender conversation about fatherhood, family patterns, psychedelics, emotional inheritance, and what it means to truly know each other as adults. Together, they explore their experience doing psychedelics together as a family, coming out to her parents about sex work, reflections on childhood, Jungian psychology as a pathway to meaning, humor as a family language, and the strange beauty of being both parent and person. What unfolds is part father-daughter roast, part spiritual debrief, and part honest reckoning with love, distance, fear, vulnerability, and the stories families carry forward.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Fatherhood & Radical Acceptance📌 Psychedelics, Integration & Emotional Release📌 Humor as a Theraputic Modality📌 Hypocrisy as a Human Metric📌 The Father Wound in Real Time📌 Seeing Your Parent as a PersonEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣https://www.coralosborne.com/podCONNECT WITH NEIL 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/5440singer54-40: https://www.5440.com/CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
- Dec 4, 202555 min
09 - Dr. Chris Donaghue: Sexual Healing, Therapy, and Personal Growth
Dr. Chris Donaghue, a clinical therapist specializing in human sexuality, discusses managing conflicts and needs in relationships, the complexities of sex addiction, and the normalization of diverse sexual practices. He emphasizes the emotional components of men's sexuality, the therapeutic use of porn, and integrating lived experiences into sexual education.EPISODE THEMES📝📌 Journey into Sex Therapy📌 Challenges in Sexology Education📌 Men's Sexuality and Erectile Disappointment📌 Clinical Experience vs. Research📌 Sexual Bypassing and Deeper Connections📌 Healthy Porn Use and MasturbationEXCLUSIVE OFFERS 📣Download Coral’s FREE Yes, No, Maybe List:https://www.coralosborne.com/yesnomaybeCONNECT WITH CHRIS 📩Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdonaghue/CONNECT WITH CORAL OSBORNE (THE NEXT MAN UP)🎙️Website: https://www.coralosborne.com/podcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborneYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextmanupwithcoralSubstack: https://substack.com/@coralosborne
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Next Man Up explores the contradictions of modern masculinity, where success and self-optimization still leave many men unfulfilled. Through candid conversations, the podcast examines the tension between freedom and connection, power and purpose, fear and fulfillment. It bridges the growing gap between men and women, fostering empathy and deeper relationships. Featuring diverse guests—including authors, comedians, and even host Coral’s personal connections—the show creates a judgment-free space for men to explore vulnerability, identity, and the evolving male experience.
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