EP 214: Cam's Story

In this story episode of Unashamed, Unafraid, Sam and Mason interview Cam, a BYU construction management student preparing to commission as a combat engineer officer. He tells how his porn addiction grew out of achievement pressure, comparison with high-achieving siblings, and deep shame. After moving frequently and living in a high-performance community, Cam internalized “you’re stupid,” then attended a harmful youth program that taught him to see sexuality as evil and God as vengeful. Family stress, his dad losing a job, not getting into West Point, and later COVID intensified depression and escalated acting out, including on his mission. Through honest disclosure, therapy, sponsors, and “rescuing little Cam” with connection, self-care, and patience, Cam’s view of God shifted to a loving, patient healer, and with support from his wife he now reports 15 months sober and a renewed sense of purpose.Make a donation and become an Outsider!Follow us on social media! Instagram, Facebook & TikTokSubscribe to our YouTubeCheck out our recommended resourcesWant to rep the message? Shop our MERCH!  For more inspiration, read our blogDo you have a story you are willing to share? Send us an email! contact@unashamedunafraid.comTimestamps:00:00 Welcome and UCAP Update01:41 Meet Cam02:31 Pressure and Shame Growing Up04:23 Porn Exposure and Toxic Program06:22 Family Stress and West Point Collapse08:55 Rock Bottom and Escalation09:42 Mission Struggles and God Image12:28 Therapy and Finding Little Cam16:04 Healing Through Pain and Self Care19:41 Relationships and Marriage Safety22:18 A New View of God25:19 Your Own Recovery