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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes, straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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- 6 days ago1h 13m
The Dance World = Gay Paradise?? w/ Kiel Tutin | WHGS 343
This episode is fascinating, listener! Kiel Tutin is a dancer, choreographer, and creative director who has been the visionary behind performances like BLACKPINK’s headlining Coachella set and The JLO Show: Live in Las Vegas. We discuss the policing of popstars, the perils (and benefits?) of reading the comments, and the joy that comes from seeing old people dance. Ashley’s plans get lost in translation at a Berlin FLINTA flat, and Lizzy tries to clock other guests at a straight wedding. Kiel shares his experience growing up and thriving in the ultra-accepting world of high level dance competitions. FOLLOW KIEL TUTIN @kieltutin TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kieltutin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kieltutin/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 1 weeks ago1h 15m
Madison Sinclair Gets Back At A Homophobe By Banging His Wife | WHGS 342
This episode is WILD, listener! Madison Sinclair is a comedian, writer (Comedy Central’s Roasts of Kevin Hart, Whitney Cummings, and Bert Kreischer), and CEO of The Bummer Shop, which sells booty shorts with sad facts. We discuss being “the man” in a femme for femme relationship, doing comedy with (and for) your dog, and the crime of being gay in the NFL. Ashley fumbles a flirtatious audience member after a show, and Lizzy gets kicked out of a timeshare presentation. Madison shares an iconic story about getting revenge on a homophobic comedian by sleeping with his ex…and there’s surprise knife play involved?! FOLLOW MADISON SINCLAIR @madisonsinclair 9/27 Live Taping Tickets: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/madison-sinclair-comedy-special-taping-tickets-1999318760232 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@madisoncomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/madisonsinclair/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://madisonsinclair.org The Bummer Shop: https://thebummershop.com/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 2 weeks ago1h 10m
We All Confront Each Other, & the WHGS Family May Never Recover… | WHGS 341
Tensions are HIGH in this episode, listener! It’s a non-traditional WHGS family episode today, and it may be one of our most raw and emotional episodes to date… Joined by both our fantastic co-hosts and comedians Lizzy Cassidy and Ali Kolbert, it all gets laid bare: Ashley confronts Ali on why she’s so intimidating, Ali confronts Ashley on why she’s so intimidated, the room confronts Ashley and Jen on why they haven’t got married, and Lizzy confronts strangers about their children. In-between, we discuss novel approaches to giving head, energy patches, and going to the movies. And to top it all off, some devastating news is dropped that may change the WHGS family forever… FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alvrahas Twitch: https://www.twitch.tv/alvrahas FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/-rHQQYdMPI8 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get affordable and personalized treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 3 weeks ago1h 12m
Amelia Montooth Prefers to Start Threeways Over Dinner | WHGS 340
This episode is being BOLD, listener! Amelia Montooth is the founder and CEO of Mutuals Media — the people behind your favorite online queer content like “Gaydar” with Anania, but today she’s in the apartment to get behind YOU with a strap! We discuss starting threesomes with strangers at pride, initiating it inside a crowded Thai restaurant, changing relationship habits, starting Mutuals Media, and the trauma caused by Tumblr and AskFM. How gay were Ashley’s parents?! Did Lizzy get discriminated against for getting gay married?! FOLLOW AMELIA, GAYDAR, & MUTUALS MEDIA: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mutualsmedia/ https://www.instagram.com/gaydarshow/ https://www.instagram.com/ameliamontooth/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mutualsmedia https://www.tiktok.com/@gaydar.show YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@gaydarshow FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/X8gYb2mJT68 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF + FREE breakfasts at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Aug 31, 20261h 6m
Edy Modica Has an “Understanding” With Her Boyfriend | WHGS 338
This episode is open and free, listener! Edy Modica (Jury Duty, Let’s Start a Cult) is a hilarious comedian, actor, and content creator that had you chuckling on one of the greatest TV shows of our current time, but now she’s on the couch to show something NASTIER on screen! We discuss having an open relationship dynamic with your boyfriend, using your arrangement to flash strangers on the internet, butt play, pansexuality, and sexting people with gusto. Ashley asks Jen for permission to MILF. Lizzy gets gay married. FOLLOW EDY MODICA: Watch her special premiere, “I’m Just Like You (And It Sucks), this 9/17 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yMhAV7XrSKM Or, Watch it NOW on VEEPS: https://veeps.com/edymodica See her LIVE: https://linktr.ee/edytree Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doodiehole/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJs__QcRSjGMpyRbchWmXHQ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ecbxpFCqIcI Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Aug 24, 20261h 4m
Hannah Beck on Escaping Arranged-Marriage Cults & Coming Out on Top (as a Top) | WHGS 337
This episode is surviving a crazy childhood, listener! Hannah Beck is a hilarious queer Chicago-based comedian and podcaster that’s performing at the biggest venues across the city, but today she’s in the apartment to escape the biggest CULTS in America. We discuss growing up in a crazy cult, escaping it through your gay bestie, the best ways to flirt as a lesbian, how to tell if you’re on a date, and how dating men is a recession indicator. Against all odds — Ashley’s Brazilian MILF arc continues… and it gets GILFy. Lizzy can definitely tell when it’s not a date. FOLLOW HANNAH BECK: Listen to her podcast, “Cross My Heart,” wherever you listen: https://open.spotify.com/show/3qE6BxlVULLxWli5n6e2BL Tour Dates: https://hannahbeckcomedy.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hannahbeckcomedy/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hannahbeckcomedy YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HannahBeckComedy FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/znV7URqtotU ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized & affordable treatment at www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Aug 17, 20261h 8m
Maddie Wiener’s Official WHGS Farewell! | WHGS 337
Get tickets to Maddie’s LIVE special taping on 9/20 in NYC! It will be the funniest thing you’ve ever seen, and the entire WHGS crew will be there: 6pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789941600 8pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789948800 This episode is a year too late, listener! Maddie Wiener is a stand-up comedian, staff writer at Saturday Night Live, and the FORMER co-host of WHGS, but today she’s in the apartment to give Bottom Nation some closure (and maybe some head). We discuss what Maddie has been up to, getting heart surgery, gender identity, its links to neurodivergence, sexism inside and out of relationships, and whether or not Heated Rivalry made you trans or horny. Ashley got socialized poorly. Lizzy treats her new strain of bi-polar disorder. FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener Go to her special taping: 6pm -https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789941600 8pm - https://www.comedycellar.com/reservations-newyork/?showid=1789948800 Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/irHrgT-4f5A ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Aug 10, 20261h 10m
Eliot Glazer (Broad City, New Girl) Finds Hidden Booty on the Pacific Islands | WHGS 336
This episode is going on some kinky vacations, listener! Eliot Glazer is a delightful comedian, writer, actor, and the mind behind some of your favorite TV shows ever made, but today he’s in the apartment to get behind some handsome fellas — if you catch our drift! We discuss the phenomenon of big gay vacations, going to secret cove orgies on pacific islands, short-term flings while you are traveling, and which has a larger cultural impact: Shrek… or 9/11? Ashley encounters her childhood bully once more. Lizzy goes to a FLINTA sex party. FOLLOW ELIOT GLAZER: Get his new book, “The Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Gay:” https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Terrible-Horrible-No-Good-Very-Bad-Gay/Eliot-Glazer/9781668085424 Get tickets to a book launch event: https://linktr.ee/eliotglazer Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eliotglazer/ Twitter: https://x.com/eliotglazer FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/NDvDC-mT0UY ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized and affordable treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay QUINCE: Get FREE shipping and 365-day returns at https://www.quince.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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About We're Having Gay Sex
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes, straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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