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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes, straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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- 2 days ago1h 1m
Kevin Atwater’s One Night Stand in an ACTUAL Haunted House… | WHGS 334
This episode is in the TWILIGHT ZONE, listener! Kevin Atwater is an incredible queer musician who has garnered millions of listens across TikTok and Spotify with his honest songwriting, but today he’s in the apartment to honestly tell us one of the freakiest stories we’ve heard… We discuss otherworldly hookups in haunted houses filled with stuffed animals, writing queer music, getting started as a fan editor, and GHB patches getting you through it all. Ashley heals past trauma with love. Ali is going crazy. FOLLOW KEVIN ATWATER: Listen to his new album, “Blush Red,” right NOW: https://open.spotify.com/album/7fMmi1DkgkI1fdOhRFxUpg He’s on tour! Get tickets here: https://www.kevin-atwater.com/tour Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kevatwater TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kevinatwatermusic Twitter: https://x.com/kevatwater FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/13Uhq9pO2Dx799YyWXZvB1?si=f33211ce2c1d4f12 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/were-having-gay-sex/id1505116116 Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/91HfXUcjqqs Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 1 weeks ago1h 6m
Polyamory Will Save Your Relationships (w/ Neil Rubenstein) | WHGS 333
This episode is OPEN and HONEST, listener! Neil Rubenstein is an incredible pansexual comedian who regularly opens for Ashley on the road, but today they’re meeting in the HOTEL ROOM for something a bit more saucy… We discuss polyamory, its benefits & challenges, mental health & healing, sex vs. gender expression, hooking up with gay republicans, and falling in love with a poly granny. Ashley goes in-depth on being open. Neil goes gay on the road. FOLLOW NEIL RUBENSTEIN: He’s on tour! Sign up for his mailing list to find out where: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ZtPjhYREDKcbpqAtJJS1ILEOjWhRLCPj_i56ckOLBvk/viewform?edit_requested=true Join his Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/NeilRubenstein TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@itsneilrubenstein Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/neilrubenstein/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/fNA5VDox8_I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 2 weeks ago1h 10m
Daylight: The Unlikely Secret for a Better Sex Life (w/ Caitlin Peluffo) | WHGS 332
Watch Caitlin Peluffo’s new special, “Prosciutto Rose,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8M5HKgLyjcI — If you like Ashley’s comedy, you’re gonna love Caitlin! This episode is making sexy choices, listener! Caitlin Peluffo is a fan-favorite stand up comedian HOT off her success on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF,” but today she’s returning to the apartment for the 4th time for some afternoon delight! We discuss making love in the middle of the day, energy vs. physical appearance, self-image when flirting, and going for the throat in a chicken fight. Ashley argues with homophobic gamers. Lizzy likes ‘em THICK. FOLLOW CAITLIN PELUFFO: She’s on tour! Get tickets here: https://punchup.live/caitlinpeluffo Watch her on Kevin Hart’s “Funny AF” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/82054722 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@caitlinpeluffo Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caitlinpeluffo/ Twitter: https://x.com/caitlinpeluffo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/_RhAymRBac8 ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized and affordable treatment at https://www.forhers.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- 3 weeks ago1h 8m
My GF (Jen Davis) and I Had a Relationship Ending Fight… | WHGS Ep. 331
This episode is FIGHTING, listener! Jen Davis is an incredible actor, content creator, and Ashley’s perfect girlfriend, but today she’s sitting on the couch to chew Ashley out — and NOT in that way, listener! We discuss hooking up with people out of the country, the beauty of a long-distance fling, drawing boundaries with your partner, and being cute even in your sleep. Ashley gets in serious hot water with Jen. Lizzy does domestic violence. FOLLOW JEN DAVIS: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jenparkerdavis Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenparkerdavis/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/2OlG4Ngl09I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Use code GAY50OFF for 50% OFF and FREE daily greens at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Jun 29, 20261h 1m
Ali Kolbert’s Secret to Stopping Comphet | WHGS Ep. 330
This episode is learning and growing, listener! It’s been a long time coming — a catch up with beloved comedian and friend of the show Ali Kolbert! It’s a duo episode today as we discuss what everyone’s been up to, straight propaganda in the New York Times, navigating comphet, disgustingly stinky ladies, and the three qualities you MUST have in order to get onto a boat. Also Ali made a VIRAL QUEER MOVIE?! You gotta tune in. SUPPORT ALI KOLBERT @alikolbert Watch her queer short film, “NO SEX,” now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpTo1U8ye-0 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alikolbert Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alikolbert/ Twitter: https://x.com/alikolbert Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://www.alikolbert.com/shows FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/iX8aW5SdLYw Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Jun 22, 20261h 3m
Gen Z Doesn’t Know How to Kiss w/ Breanne Williamson | WHGS Ep. 329
This episode is smooching, listener! Beloved actor, comedian, writer, and friend Breanne Williamson RETURNS for the annual ASH-BRE CATCH-UP — and you best believe there is gonna be some kissing involved! We discuss the crisis of kissing in younger generations, Love Island, the mental illness of young men, European vs. American sense of humor, and whether or not “Belly” is sexy dirty talk. Ashley has her DIRTIEST sex yet (literally). Bre wants romance. FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/K21UJXAzr_I ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HERS: Get personalized & affordable care at https://www.forhers.com/gay HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Jun 15, 20261h 7m
Sabrina Wu’s WIERD Approach to Losing Their Queer Virginity | WHGS Ep. 328
(TW // self harm discussion; 8:14 - 9:52) This episode is making awkward moves, listener! Sabrina Wu (they/them) is an unfathomably funny stand up comedian, writer, and actor who you've seen on Joy Ride, Murderbot, and Abbot Elementary — but today they’re in the apartment to pop their queer cherry! We discuss realizing you’re gay when young, the bizarre ways you explore at that age, genderqueer identity vs. perception, acting, and getting called a filthy little PIG. Ashley reconnects with a messy fling. Lizzy experiments with polyamory. SUPPORT SABRINA WU: Watch them LIVE on tour: https://linktr.ee/sabwu Watch Murderbot on Apple TV: https://tv.apple.com/us/show/murderbot/umc.cmc.5owrzntj9v1gpg31wshflud03 Watch Dying for Sex on Hulu: https://www.hulu.com/series/423f6320-b55b-453b-a85f-dea05bd495d9 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@asabrinawu Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/asabrinawu/ Twitter: https://x.com/asabrinawu FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/TRhH8Wg4YEQ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
- Jun 8, 20261h 5m
Zach Noe Towers Didn’t Watch “Heated Rivalry" — He LIVED It | WHGS Ep. 327
This episode is living through a real fantasy, listener! Zach Noe Towers is an endlessly lovable stand up comedian whose work has been featured on E!, Netflix, and Comedy Central, but today he’s in the apartment to showcase his work from GRINDR! We discuss having a LEGENDARY hookup straight out of “Heated Rivalry,” interpreting flirty body language, short & fiery flings, and big boy dumps. Ashley teaches a homophobic teen a lesson. Lizzy struggles for vacation sex. SUPPORT ZACH NOE TOWERS: Watch his special, “Twink Death,” RIGHT NOW: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmIxzOLtOQo See Him LIVE: https://punchup.live/zachnoetowers/tour Listen to “Good Morning, Sodomites” wherever you listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/good-morning-sodomites/id1533562889 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@zachnoetowers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zachnoetowers/ Twitter: https://x.com/ZachNoeTowers FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy FOLLOW ALEX VRAHAS @alvrahas Mailing List: https://forms.gle/t48AUUEYzrNagU1B9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XZocFdfkQxk ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex TOMBOYX: Use code GAY15 to get 15% OFF your order at https://tomboyx.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes, straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is.
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