With The Perrys

Moving from Bitterness to Resilience with Toni Collier

October 5, 2026·1h 6m
Episode Description from the Publisher

Pain changes us, and it can make us bitter before it makes us resilient. We can also become more attached to our pain than to our Savior, and that’s idolatry. Toni Collier joins the Perrys to talk about what bitterness looks like and what it means to reckon with our suffering instead of running from it. Toni and Preston discuss their individual experiences with ADHD and how their brains uniquely process trauma and pain. Toni unpacks her experience with EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy and how it creates the space to process through hard things. Toni, Jackie and Preston together point to the fact that healing is a communal project – healing requires bringing our suffering to the Lord and to safe people in our lives. Connect with Toni instagram.com/tonijcollier www.youtube.com/@tonijcollier www.tonijcollier.com www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0B1QZ47L2 Check out two seasons of Unshakeable Moxie, a FREE video series from Our Daily Bread, co-hosted by Toni Collier: www.odbm.org/en/media/unshakable-moxie Scripture references: Judges 4 Ruth 1:20 This Episode is Sponsored By: https://weekendtoremember.com - Register now with code PERRY to save $100 - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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