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by Cate and Darrell
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP218 – Hotwife Session LIVE from Hedonism Resort What does a live hotwifing conversation at Hedonism II Resort actually sound like? In this special episode recorded LIVE at Hedonism Resort during Casual Swinger Week, Cate and Mallory host an open group session exploring real lifestyle experiences around hotwifing, safety, fantasy play, and navigating attention from single men From conversations about vetting single guys and setting boundaries, to playful audience participation through Two Truths & a Lie, this session captures the energy, curiosity, and honesty that happens when swingers gather together in person to talk openly about desire and connection Links Mentioned The Ultimate Guide to STi Testing in the swingers lifestyle Shivers THC Intimacy Gummies - Get 10% off using code Libertine - https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine Useful Links from this Episode Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off use code Libertine - https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products - Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 - https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Hedonism Resort review, Hedonism II Jamaica, swingers resort experience, Casual Swinger Week, swingers resort takeover, lifestyle resort first timer tips, clothing optional resort advice, nude resort confidence, swingers travel podcast, lifestyle resort interviews, ethical non monogamy travel, swinger vacation stories, Wanderlust Swingers podcast
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP217 – Inside Hedonism: Real Swingers Resort Stories, First-Timer Tips & Casual Swinger Week Takeover Interviews What really happens during a week at Hedonism II Resort? In this episode, Cate shares a full recap of 7 nights at Hedonism during Casual Swinger Week, featuring four real interviews with guests from across the lifestyle, couples, women, returning attendees, and second-time visitors navigating confidence, connection, play spaces, and first-timer nerves at one of the world’s most iconic swingers resorts. See BTS photos from the event on our Patreon - https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder From nude pool parties and playroom firsts to breakfast-table friendships and group-play breakthroughs, this episode explores what actually happens on a lifestyle resort takeover week and what guests wish they’d known before arriving. Whether you're curious about Hedonism, planning your first swingers resort trip, or wondering what takeover weeks feel like compared to regular resort stays, this episode gives you real stories from inside the experience. New Blogs Mentioned The Ultimate Guide to STi Testing in the swingers lifestyle When Intimacy in Long Term Relationships Declines, what you can do to get out of the RUT Useful Links from this Episode Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers – Intimacy Gummies Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine Hedonism Resort review, Hedonism II Jamaica, swingers resort experience, Casual Swinger Week, swingers resort takeover, lifestyle resort first timer tips, clothing optional resort advice, nude resort confidence, swingers travel podcast, lifestyle resort interviews, ethical non monogamy travel, swinger vacation stories, Wanderlust Swingers podcast
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP216 – Apple Banned Us, Lifestyle Dating Ghosting, 55 Wild Kinks & Nevada Brothel Union Drama After 11 years on Apple Podcasts, we’ve suddenly been removed from the US Apple directory and we’re still trying to figure out why We also share a real update on shooting our shot in the lifestyle after sending 13 messages to potential matches on SDC. We break down the results (including ghosting statistics), and debate whether people actually owe a “no thank you” response on dating sites Plus, a kink guessing game based on Cosmopolitan’s list of 55 kinks, and a fascinating story out of Nevada where workers at a legal brothel are attempting to unionize over controversial contract terms involving likeness and content rights Rate our dating profile photos on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Links Cosmo Kink List https://sex.cosmopolitan.com/pleasure/a24481923/kinks-fetish-list/ Join us at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 The Ultimate Guide to STI Testing For Swingers https://wanderlustswingers.com/swinger-education/swingers-sti-testing/ Support Our Amazing Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Shivers - Intimacy Gummies Get 10% off using code Libertine https://shivers.store/?ref=libertine apple podcast removed, swinger podcast, lifestyle dating ghosting, SDC swingers, swinger dating etiquette, kink list explained, figging kink, mirror arousal, vore kink, Sheri’s Ranch brothel, Nevada sex workers union, adult content censorship, non monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP215 – Playroom Etiquette, Grey Areas & A Hotwife Onboard the Bliss Cruise In this episode, we dive into a lifestyle topic that sparks massive debate: playroom etiquette and the “grey areas” that aren’t written in the rules. We share a real experience from Fata Morgana (Netherlands) where another couple began having sex very close to us (around 20cm) in a small open playroom. No rules were broken, nobody touched anyone… but the vibe shifted fast, mainly due to proximity and intense watching. That led to the real question: When something is technically allowed, can it still be socially tone-deaf? We also share highlights from the Reddit discussion (yes, some people roasted us), unpack the difference between rules vs social awareness, and give practical advice for navigating open play spaces when everyone’s boundaries are different. Plus: Cate’s upcoming Bliss Cruise hotwife adventure, and our latest attempt at making new local lifestyle friends (with very Dutch planning timelines). In This Episode - Playroom etiquette vs “grey area” social awareness - Parallel play, proximity, and when it feels invasive - Why eye contact can change the dynamic fast - Reddit reactions: “technically allowed but socially tone-deaf” vs “open room means accept it” - Newbie advice: you can’t control others, only your response - Cate’s Bliss Cruise plans with Mallory (two hotwives on the loose) - Unicorn/hotwife dynamics + messages on the Bliss app - Seasickness tips wanted + the drink package debate - Finding new swinger friends: Cate sent 13 local messages and is tracking replies Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Playroom etiquette, swinger club rules, open playroom, parallel play, voyeur etiquette, lifestyle consent, swingers Netherlands, Fata Morgana swingers, Bliss Cruise, hotwife lifestyle, non-monogamy podcast, swinger travel, Wanderlust Swingers podcast.
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP214 – Swinger Cruises: Inside Bliss Cruise with CEO Russell Stephens In this episode, we’re joined by Russell Stephens, CEO and part owner of Bliss Cruise, the world’s largest and most influential lifestyle cruise brand, for an unfiltered conversation about the past, present, and future of Bliss Cruise. Russell shares how Bliss Cruise was acquired, why the ownership structure changed, and how decisions are actually made behind the scenes. We talk candidly about community concerns, guest privacy, pricing, drink packages, sponsorships, and the realities of working with major cruise lines while protecting a sex-positive lifestyle experience. Join Cate on Bliss Cruise – April 2026 Cate will be sailing on the April 2026 Bliss Cruise, including the beach parties in Jamaica and Cozumel. Book here to join Cate and receive exclusive cashback: https://wanderlustswingers.com/bliss-cruise-april-2026/ - $750 cashback for international guests - $300 cashback for North American guests We also dive deep into what most guests never see, the logistics, planning, staffing, and production required to transform a “vanilla” cruise ship into a full-scale lifestyle event with thousands of guests. If you’ve ever wondered: - Who actually owns Bliss Cruise and how decisions are made - How a cruise ship is converted into a swinger cruise in under 24 hours - Why drink packages cost what they do - What happened with cameras, videography, and privacy concerns - How Bliss balances legacy guests with modernizing the experience - Whether West Coast Bliss cruises are ever coming - What goes into playrooms, music programming, and themed cruises In This Episode - Why Bliss Cruise was acquired and what changed with new ownership - Russell’s personal history in the lifestyle and why that matters - How guest feedback and surveys directly shape future cruises - Privacy, consent, videography, and lessons learned - Drink packages, pricing realities, and why sneaking alcohol hurts the community - Sponsorship decisions and why some partnerships won’t happen again - Behind-the-scenes logistics: staffing, playrooms, AV, decor, and scheduling - How Royal Caribbean crews actually feel about Bliss sailings - What makes Bliss Cruise different from resorts, clubs, and land-based events Useful Links Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Promescent – Sexual Wellness Products Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swinger Cruises, Bliss Cruise, Lifestyle Travel, Swinger Podcast, Adult Cruises, Non-Monogamy, Sex Positive Travel, Lifestyle Events, Swinger Community, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Swinger cruises, lifestyle travel, Bliss Cruise, adult cruises, playrooms, sex-positive vacations, privacy, pricing, behind-the-scenes logistics, and what it really takes to run a floating lifestyle city.
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle. Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners? In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event: https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with Promescent Get 15% off using code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Delay Spray, Pleasure Products, Swingers, Swinger Podcast, Better Sex, Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Sex, Arousal Gel, Female Pleasure, Male Performance, Last Longer in Bed, Sex Toys for Couples, Promescent, Urologist-Backed Sex Products, Sexual Health Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP212 – Hot Takes: The Hotwife Boom – Trend, Evolution or Opportunism? (Bonus Episode) Hotwife is everywhere right now, searches are rising, events are multiplying, creators are rebranding, and porn studios are showing up in lifestyle spaces looking for “talent.” So is this a genuine shift in the lifestyle… or is porn culture and trend chasing bleeding into swinging? Our Hottakes bonus episode, we unpack what hotwifing actually is (and isn’t), why the label is suddenly trending, and whether separate play dynamics are becoming more normal at couples events, or if it’s mostly just branding and algorithms. In this Episode: What hotwifing means (and how it’s different from cuckolding and “just separate play”) Why “hotwife” searches spiked in 2024–2025 (Google Trends nerd moment) The rise of hotwife-specific events, hall passes, and separate-play meetups Are we seeing more hotwifing in real life — or just more people using the label? Porn studios entering lifestyle spaces (including a couples-only cruise sponsor) Content ownership + why “signing talent releases” can follow you forever Our 10-year hotwife journey and whether we’re “missing opportunities” Why hunting hall-pass husbands at couples events makes zero sense (and feels messy) The big question: authentic evolution… or opportunistic trend Useful Links from this Episode: Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderlust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Hotwife Boom, Hotwifing, Hotwife Podcast, Hot Takes, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Trends, Separate Play, Hall Pass, Porn and Swinging, Lifestyle Events, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP211 – Club Rejection, MFM Lessons & Lifestyle Drama at a Swingers Club What happens when you get rejected from a swingers club, have an MFM at home that doesn’t quite land, and then walk into one of the most chaotic club nights you’ve had in 10 years? In this episode, we kick off 2026 by unpacking getting denied entry to a Belgium club, lessons from a recent MFM, and a wild swingers club night that included a consent violation, staff intervention, and a serious conversation about safety and responsibility in lifestyle spaces. And wrap up with a quick 2025 recap, 2026 goals, and why “approaching the unapproachable” (and being the ugliest one in the orgy) might be the new vibe. In this Episode: Getting rejected from a swingers club (and what photos clubs actually want) MFM lessons & why home play can be harder than hotels Condom fit issues & why your hoe bag needs options Dressing down at clubs without killing the vibe A consent violation and how quickly things escalated What responsibility club owners have for creating safer spaces 2025 recap + 2026 goals and lifestyle plans Useful Links from this Episode: Club Eroxx Review (Belgium): https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-club-review/club-eroxx-review/ Join us in 2026 at a Swingers Event https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website: https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122 Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD Hero - Get 10% off, use code Libertine https://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray/Wipes + more sexual wellness products with our partner Promescent - Get 15% off their amazing products, use code wanderust26 https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26 Swingers Club Drama, Swingers Club Consent, Club Rejection, MFM Threesome, Hotwife Podcast, Swinger Podcast, Non-Monogamy, Lifestyle Podcast, Swingers Club Safety, Lifestyle Boundaries, Swinger Travel, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast, Belgium Swingers Club, Libertine Events
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A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to embrace consensual non-monogamy. Formerly known as Swinging Downunder, we continue to explore and celebrate the diverse facets of sexual freedom and empowerment. Discover the highs, lows, and everything in between as we embark on our journey together.
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