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by Hiba Balfaqih
The Shadow Sessions is hosted by Hiba Balfaqih, an unconventional psychologist and trauma alchemist. We explore the stories that most people bury—particularly those tied to shame, trauma, and identity. Our goal is to shed light on the hidden corners of human experience, allowing listeners to hear stories that challenge societal norms and spark deep, introspective conversations.
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- 3 days ago10 min
Why Your Mind Shuts Down To Survive
What happens psychologically when the people meant to protect you become the ones taking away your choices? In this episode of The Notebook, Hiba Balfaqih reflects on her conversation with Rubie, who was just 15 years old when her family took her to another country and forced her into a marriage she had never chosen. Hiba discusses the moments from Rubie’s story that stood out to her and offers her insights into the psychological dynamics behind coercion, control, family loyalty, and betrayal. She explores what happens when harmful behavior is justified through culture or tradition, how a young person learns to survive when resistance doesn’t feel possible, and the lasting impact of having trust and autonomy taken away by the very people meant to provide safety. This episode of The Notebook looks beyond Rubie’s individual experience to unpack the patterns beneath it—and what her story can teach us about control, resilience, and reclaiming the right to choose your own life.
- 1 weeks ago1h 18m
Every 7 Seconds this Happens To A Girl
What happens when the people who love you believe that harming you is an act of protection? In this episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih speaks with Hoda, who was seven years old when her family celebrated what she believed was a special occasion. Instead, she was subjected to female genital mutilation (FGM)—a practice that would leave lifelong physical and psychological consequences. This conversation goes beyond the procedure itself. It explores the complex reality of generational trauma, where mothers and grandmothers who endured the same experience continue the practice, believing they are protecting their daughters and preserving tradition. Hoda shares the lasting impact FGM has had on her health, relationships, fertility, and sense of self, while reflecting on what it means to reconcile love with profound harm. Together, Hiba and Hoda examine how cultural beliefs can normalize violence, why these cycles persist, and what it takes to challenge them. This episode is about tradition, trauma, resilience, and the courage to break a cycle that has shaped generations of women.
- 2 weeks ago1h 10m
"I Saw Who Killed My Mom at 3 Years Old"
What happens when the first truth you ever tell is the one no one believes? In this episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih speaks with Jade, who was just three years old when her mother was murdered. In the immediate aftermath, Jade told investigators what she had witnessed. But because of her age, her account was dismissed, leaving her to grow up carrying a truth that others refused to accept. This conversation explores far more than the crime itself. It examines childhood memory, trauma, and what happens when a child's reality is questioned by the very adults responsible for protecting them. It asks how early experiences shape identity, what it means to doubt your own memories, and how validation years later can never erase the silence that came before it. Jade reflects on growing up in the shadow of loss, living with unanswered questions, and the emotional impact of waiting for the world to finally recognize what she had known all along. This episode is about childhood trauma, memory, justice, and the profound consequences of believing—or failing to believe—a child's voice.
- 3 weeks ago56 min
My Husband Raped Me
Leaving an abusive relationship is rarely as simple as walking away. Sometimes the forces keeping someone trapped aren't fear alone—they're love, loyalty, children, and the hope of protecting the family they never had. In this episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih speaks with Kathleen, whose former husband was convicted in 2024 of rape and coercive control. After years of abuse, Kathleen waived her legal right to anonymity so that he could be publicly identified, choosing to tell her story in her own words. This conversation explores the psychology of coercive control and why survivors often remain in abusive relationships despite the harm they endure. It examines how childhood experiences, attachment, and deeply held values can be manipulated by an abusive partner, turning love and commitment into mechanisms of control. Rather than asking, "Why didn't she leave?" this episode asks a different question: "What made leaving so difficult?" Hiba and Kathleen unpack the hidden dynamics of psychological abuse, trauma bonding, and the lasting impact of living under coercive control. This episode is about understanding, accountability, and recognizing that abuse is not defined only by physical violence—but by the systematic erosion of autonomy, safety, and identity.
- Sep 3, 202611 min
He Could Kill Her So Why Did She Stay?
Some conversations don't end when the cameras stop rolling—they deserve to be unpacked. In this episode of The Notebook, Hiba Balfaqih reflects on her conversation with Annesa and explores the psychological patterns that emerged throughout the interview. Drawing from her expertise in human behavior and trauma, Hiba examines the psychology of love bombing, coercive control, and why intense relationships can so easily be mistaken for genuine love. She explores how cultural narratives, emotional conditioning, and attachment patterns can make controlling behaviors feel romantic rather than alarming. Rather than revisiting the details of Annesa's story, this episode focuses on understanding the hidden dynamics behind unhealthy relationships, emotional dependency, and manipulation. Hiba unpacks the subtle warning signs that are often overlooked, why people become vulnerable to coercive control, and how early experiences and societal messages shape our expectations of love. This episode offers a chance to look beneath the surface and better understand the difference between intensity and intimacy, control and care, and how recognizing these patterns is the first step toward building relationships grounded in safety, trust, and genuine connection.
- Aug 27, 202612 min
Phycologist Answers Your Questions
In this special Q&A episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih answers listener questions covering a wide range of topics. Rather than offering quick answers, Hiba approaches each question with curiosity, compassion, and psychological insight, helping listeners see their situations and the patterns that shape their lives in a new light. Whether you're looking for perspective, reassurance, or simply curious to hear the conversation, this episode offers an open and honest space where no question is too small and every answer is an opportunity to learn something new.
- Aug 20, 202617 min
The Abuser Was Never A Stranger
We've spent generations teaching children to fear strangers. But the evidence tells a different story. In this special reflection episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih revisits the stories of Aziza, Seth, Jazmine, and Sonny—four survivors whose experiences expose one of the most dangerous misconceptions about child sexual abuse: that the greatest threat comes from strangers. Instead, these conversations reveal a far more uncomfortable reality. Abuse is most often committed by someone a child knows, trusts, or has been taught to obey. Family members, caregivers, trusted adults, and people within a child's everyday world are far more likely to exploit access, familiarity, and silence than strangers hiding in the shadows. Hiba unpacks the psychology of grooming, why children rarely disclose abuse immediately, and how myths like "stranger danger" can leave families focused on the wrong risks. Rather than creating fear, this episode offers a framework for prevention—one rooted in body autonomy, open communication, critical thinking, and helping children understand that unsafe behavior can come from anyone, regardless of their relationship. This episode is not about creating suspicion. It's about replacing outdated narratives with evidence, empowering parents and caregivers with better conversations, and giving children the language to recognize unsafe behavior wherever it comes from.
- Aug 13, 202628 min
The Most Shocking Moments - Part 2
Some moments stay with you long after the conversation ends. In this special episode of The Shadow Sessions, Hiba Balfaqih revisits some of the most powerful and unforgettable moments from the series so far—stories of survival, betrayal, identity, trauma, accountability, and transformation. Part two brings together voices that challenged the way we understand abuse, violence, incarceration, extremism, addiction, and the systems that shape human behavior. These are not moments selected for shock alone. They reveal the patterns beneath the headlines: what happens to the nervous system under prolonged fear, how identity forms inside survival, and what it takes to reclaim agency after life has been altered. This episode is a reflection on the truths guests were brave enough to speak—and the questions their stories leave behind.
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The Shadow Sessions is hosted by Hiba Balfaqih, an unconventional psychologist and trauma alchemist. We explore the stories that most people bury—particularly those tied to shame, trauma, and identity. Our goal is to shed light on the hidden corners of human experience, allowing listeners to hear stories that challenge societal norms and spark deep, introspective conversations.
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